just some thoughts:
In life you are not only supposed to guard your heart but you can guard others hearts by not flirting, not leading others on, & honestly avoiding relationships unless it’s God’s time for you to be with who He has for you and you have sought the wisdom for your spiritual leadership and you are planning on getting married. I don’t want to give my heart away to a bunch of guys and I don’t want their hearts either. We need to give our hearts to God and point others to do the same. We have the rest of our lives to be married with who God has for us so why rush it? Why rob you and your future spouse of maturing and growing in God? treat others in the way you would want others to treat your future spouse